Thanks for being with us Jessica...
But the guilt feeling is very short lived when I realize how flexible my stash lets me be. Late night is when I'm most creative and do the most sewing. So it makes sense for me to have these shelves available to me for bee blocks, last minute guild swap items, quilts started on a whim, little girl outfits, and anything else I want to make justcuziwanna.
This shelf is my favorite to stare at because these stacks are fabrics I've already put together for future quilts. Right now, there are three in waiting, all for specific people and purposes. But I also have three in progress and I'm not going to let myself start on one of these until at least one of those is finished. So in that way, this shelf serves as a great motivator to finish things I start. It also reminds me why I don't really need to buy that fat quarter bundle of that super gorgeous line that just arrived at the modern fabric store I work in. I can usually be rational enough to realize that by the time I get through all these quilts that are on deck, there will be plenty of other new lines coming out that I will love just as much. See? Money saver. Kind of.
And then there are the scraps. As you can see, I have a really high-tech system of organizing them in this giant Joann's shopping bag. Classy. I go to my scrap bag all the time to find just the perfect piece for whatever I'm working on. I don't keep the teeny tiny things, but if it's over 3 inches, it's going to get used somehow.
Like I said, stashes are very personal things. Everyone's is going to be just as unique to them as the things they make. But if you are new to sewing and the whole idea of stashing is a bit foreign to you, I would give it some thought. Figure out what kind of projects you like to make the most, and start buying accordingly. Buy in a variety of colors, styles, and yardage amounts, just a little at a time. Of course, how big you let it get is a personal matter as well, but once it's there, use it up and take advantage of it. And yes, it's ok to let yourself just sit and stare at it sometimes. Best friends are all about quality time.
Friendship is never simple in the real world - there are complexities even in the most valued of our relationships. And for most of us, I think it is the same with our stash. It can bring us so much fun but it can also feel like a responsibility to manage. Finding a balance so that is useful and productive but not overwhelming and a source of guilt can sometimes be tricky. And for all of us that balance is going to be different.
I hope your stash is balanced and bringing you joy!




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