I love craft blogs.  I love reading them and taking a tiny peek into the lives of other crafty souls - their passions, projects and sewing spaces.  I love the way in which people share information, the way they spread inspiration and are so very  generous with their hints, tips and ideas.  Just lately though I've been thinking... (My husband hates it when I say that - he thinks that I'm going to suggest a renovation project or initiate one of 'those 'relationship talks.)  What's this blogging business about anyway? 

For me, blogging is about trying to make crafting connections and friendships beyond the people that I come across in my day to day existence. It's for this reason I love it when people make  blog comments - especially ones that initiate a conversation or a dialogue.  While it's lovely when people say 'Wow that's amazing' or 'I love it', ultimately it's constructive criticism and questions that really  make me think  and make me happy.  Craft and creative projects are all about aesthetics. What you find aesthetically pleasing is just that... what YOU find pleasing.  Chances are, it won't be someone else's cup of tea and that's ok. If you're only after positive comments to boost your creative ego, then blogging probably isn't the right crafting zone for you


Funnily  enough, Pinterest has taught me  something pretty important about blogging and blog comments - just because people don't comment on a project, it doesn't mean they don't like it.  Maryanne and I have many, many, many posts that haven't initiated any comments, and that's OK.  But a brief check on Pinterest  (is searching your blog on Pinterest weird? Probably, but that's beside the point...) reveals that tonnes of people have pinned the said commentless post or project.  Hey - who am I to complain? It's great that they like it and it's not like I make a comment on every single thing I pin.  It has inspired me to be a lot more diligent with commenting on other people's posts and ideas, though, especially those that I have pinned.

Since we finished up on Project Run and Play, Maryanne and I have been thinking a lot about our blog and the direction we want to take it.  We haven't really firmed up any answers  yet  other than the fact that we love to sew and craft and that we love to connect with other crafty souls and maybe that's enough. 

What kind of commenter are you? What kind of comments do you love?  I'd love to have a chat to you about it!


Caroline

PS - don't worry - we're not going all existentialist on you.  There are plenty of crafty posts coming up soon!
 


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27/05/2012 07:59

for all craft bloggers ~ this is something we all have to figure out (what direction to take it), you will figure out what's best for you, I know you will...
have you ever thought of writing an ebook for mothers to teach their children how to sew? especially for mothers who don't know who to sew?

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27/05/2012 18:38

Rachel, I do like the idea of ebooks...kind of like our sewing lessons that can reach lots of people. I am (was?) a high school teacher and am still really motivated by the concept of teaching.

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27/05/2012 18:01

Your question is one I have struggled with. I have just resumed blogging after an extended leave and am still asking what direction to go. Good luck!

And I like Rachel's idea.

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27/05/2012 18:41

CJ I just checked out your blog and am so glad you're blogging again. I know Lizzy will love your fairy garden project! Can I ask what made you decide to go back to blogging?

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cate
28/05/2012 07:04

I don't have a blog, but read a lot and know that many bloggers face this issue. I'm guessing it's because you put so much of yourself out into the ether with the desire to inspire people and in the hope that you will receive feedback for that. I don't often comment, sometimes because I feel that what I want to say has been said, or I feel that other commenters have a personal relationship with the blogger and so I'd be intruding on their conversation, or because I'm too tired to make a concise point, or because the post has already received a number of comments so my voice doesn't need to be added. Basically, my reasons for not commenting are all about me and not really about the blogger at all.
I'm also thinking that you may be reassessing after all your hard work on project run and play and you'll feel better about it all after a bit of time.
I really enjoy your blog and am inspired by the projects you share, so thanks for all the hard work you put in to it!

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28/05/2012 19:28

Cate - I have all those reasons for not commenting on blogs too...and you're right - they've got nothing to do with the blogger. I'm definitely going to comment more now. I love getting comments on my blog (and LOVE seeing what's being pinned from my blog). I often wonder what the purpose of my blogging is...not sure if I'll ever figure it out. Sometimes I stress that I need to put up a post thinking people are waiting for it, but then sometimes I think that it doesn't matter and no one would care.

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29/05/2012 16:19

You, know I don't comment for all the same reasons - and sometime it's really hard to add anything to a conversation... everything seems to be said!

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Rachel
28/05/2012 20:40

I agree with much of what Cate says. I also do not have a blog but read way tooo many! I often feel I don't have enough time to leave comments and most often I type up a comment but then delete it for various reasons (usually because I feel it sounds silly). Funny thing, I too love to read comments that people leave and when I comment I go back to see if anyone commented on my comment (ridiculous, I know so I could never be a blogger because I certainly would be checking for comments :) ). I really do enjoy this blog, it has become one of my top 10 to check daily!

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29/05/2012 16:14

Thanks - this definitely wasn't a "why don't love us post!" I am really enjoying everyone's perspectives, though...

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28/05/2012 20:47

i've been thinking about this a lot lately too, and i think PR&P definitely provides that boost to think about where you want to go next - it definitely opens you up to do more creative things! i do try to comment a lot, the only blogs i really don't comment on are the giant ones where they already have 50+ comments and i'm not sure if they really "need me," you know? but yes, there are times one my projects won't get many comments and i'll feel down, then i'll check pinterest and it's been pinned quite a bit! so it's nice to have that feedback too. :)

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29/05/2012 16:16

I am just like that with the giant blogs too - it kind of feels a bit like you get lost in the ether.
Kristin - I think you are an amazing commenter - I love reading your comments on everyone's blogs. You have definitely inspired me!

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29/05/2012 15:02

The reasons I usually don't make comments on blogs are selfish ones. I use people's tutorials and ideas all the time and it wasn't until after Project Run & Play that I realized how much time it takes those people to not only make the craft, but take pictures of it, then write a tutorial for it! I think I could take the minute just to make a kind comment in return.

Since PR&P I have also been going through a transition time where I am trying to decide what direction I want to go with my blogging and with my business. If there were three of me then maybe I could have the time to figure it all out!

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29/05/2012 16:18

You're right - even the tiniest tutorial takes forever to put together.

I can't wait to see what you come up with next...!

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07/06/2012 12:42

How am I so late to this awesome conversation?

First of all, I think all bloggers search themselves on Pinterest. I'm not on there either, but I do that from time to time :)

And I have had these questions lately too of course. Especially when I look at all the previous winners of PR&P, I feel like my blog will never measure up. But I don't even know if that's the kind of thing I want. I feel all this pressure to be super awesome now, but it really doesn't matter... winning that is it's own thing, it's not like I've somehow committed myself to writing weekly tutorials or posting something every day. What a weird little internet subculture we have going on here :) One thing I do know is that I love making all the new friends this way, and I hope it keeps up.

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Kate Ives
09/06/2012 19:26

Hi Caroline,
I am guilty of reading a blog entry without leaving a comment but that doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed or appreciated it. Quite often I find an interesting blog through Pinterest where the entry is an old one and therefore I feel it's superfluous to leave a comment. (Do you read late comments?)
From my perspective pinning a tutorial is a form of compliment but wonder if it's seen this way from a blogger's point of view. (As often as possible my pins link back to where I found the content.)
I also see a lot of entries where questions have been asked in the comments section and have not been answered by the blogger leading me to the (false?) conclusion that said blogger doesn't read comments and therefore why leave one? It's few and far between to find a blogger (like you) who responds to comments.
In future I will take on board what you have said and leave feed-back. Blog reading is part of my daily routine and I love the generosity of all of you who take time to share your knowledge and expertise. So ... belatedly ... Thank you! Kate.

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09/06/2012 19:40

Obviously, I can only speak for myself, and my blog isn't that big that I get heaps of comments each day, but I do read every comment I get whether it's for an old or new post. I personally have no problem with people pinning my tutorials. I pin other tutorials because I find pinterest a good way of keeping it where I can find it again later.

I also hate when I see questions on a blog that aren't answered. I always answer questions anyone puts on my posts. I often feel like people don't get back to questions I leave, but I think sometimes I forget to follow the post so I don't know when an answer has beef left to my question.

I don't reply to every comment, but I definitely read them and appreciate them.

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Kate Ives
09/06/2012 19:58

Thanks Abby. I agree that Pinterest is a great place for remembering all of the fabulous things we see on the internet and I am finding it a bit confusing as to the number of bloggers who are blocking pinning but that's a discussion for another time and place.
I'm heading on over to take a look at your blog. Kate.

09/06/2012 19:40

Obviously, I can only speak for myself, and my blog isn't that big that I get heaps of comments each day, but I do read every comment I get whether it's for an old or new post. I personally have no problem with people pinning my tutorials. I pin other tutorials because I find pinterest a good way of keeping it where I can find it again later.

I also hate when I see questions on a blog that aren't answered. I always answer questions anyone puts on my posts. I often feel like people don't get back to questions I leave, but I think sometimes I forget to follow the post so I don't know when an answer has beef left to my question.

I don't reply to every comment, but I definitely read them and appreciate them.

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11/06/2012 00:28

I just love positive comments, whether they are about colours, ideas, tips or encouragement.
So gorgeous to see you this weekend, next stop, our school reunion. I loved your comments about your husband, what a great guy, love Posie

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13/06/2012 16:52

I wish I had seen this post before SIT and we could have chatted about it in person!
It's something I often ponder too - I often don't leave a comment if I am reading blogs from my reader but the interaction from others is, for me, a very important part of blogging.
I love to learn new things - in fact my skills would never have improved as they have without blogs - it's where I have learned countless new tips and tricks, discovered tools and patterns and techniques.
I love to find a blog where I can learn something new and expand my skills, as well as making personal connections.

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Emma
17/06/2012 03:16

Hi, I suppose I can't read a post about commenting and not comment. I love to read your posts, I get a snap shot of your lives. I also get inspired, my sewing and crafting comes in waves but after reading your posts I get motivated to get that sewing machine out again. Crazy mum that I am made 3 Harry Potter robes for a fancy dress last night. With 3 boys I don't often make them clothes but it was great to see them all dressed up! Keep up the posts!

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